DAY 30 — This Is Your Life


Thirty days of talking about courage, possibility, boundaries, dreams, identity, change and becoming.


But none of it matters unless you remember this:


This is not the rehearsal.


This is your actual life.


You don't know how many chapters you get.


So love people loudly.


Try things.


Change your mind.


Make some money.


Make some memories.


Leave what diminishes you.


Build what excites you.


Help somebody.


Ask for help.


Laugh more.


Start over when you need to.


And please stop saving the woman you want to become for “someday.”


Go meet her.

DAY 29 — Start Before Monday


You don't need Monday.


You don't need January.


You don't need your birthday.


You don't need the perfect morning routine, new notebook, cleared schedule, or Mercury to get its shit together.


It's Tuesday at 3:17?


Fine.


Change your life at 3:17.

DAY 15 — Halfway Check-In


Fifteen days ago, I started asking you to think differently about your life.


So here's today's question:


What have you actually DONE differently?


Mindset without movement becomes another thing we consume.


Pick one thing you've been thinking about.


Move it forward today.


Even an inch counts.

DAY 13 — Stop Negotiating With Yourself


You said you wanted it.


Then the moment it became inconvenient, uncomfortable, scary, or boring, you started negotiating.


“Maybe tomorrow.”


“Maybe when things calm down.”


“Maybe I'm not meant to do this.”


Sometimes the breakthrough isn't another motivational speech.


Sometimes you just need to keep the promise you made to yourself.

DAY 9 — You Don't Need Permission


Start the business.


Take the class.


Change careers.


Wear the outfit.


Travel alone.


Write the book.


Learn something completely ridiculous.


Become someone nobody saw coming.


You don't need a committee meeting before changing your own life.


Permission granted. By you.

DAY 8 — Make Yourself Proud


Imagine yourself one year from today.


Not what she owns.


Not what she weighs.


Not what title she has.


Who is she?


What did she finally stop tolerating?


What did she have the courage to start?


What promise did she finally keep to herself?


Start making decisions SHE will thank you for.

Have you escaped and grown through a tough relationship?


Have you navigated divorce, domestic violence, betrayal, starting over, or rebuilding your life when you weren’t sure what came next?


Are you a voice another woman might need to hear?


Can you become the woman you once needed?


Create the group.


Create a safe space for women to talk, connect, share experiences and help each other navigate some of the hardest chapters of their lives.


You don’t have to have all the answers. Sometimes being able to say, “I’ve been there. This is what I learned,” is incredibly powerful.


There is so much knowledge in what women have survived, learned and rebuilt from.


Share it.


Be the village.

Have you navigated a health scare?


Been through something difficult and come out the other side knowing WAY more about it than you ever wanted to?


Are you well versed in a women’s issue that you could be a voice, resource or sounding board for other women navigating it?


CREATE THE GROUP.


You don’t have to be an expert with letters after your name to start a conversation. Sometimes lived experience is exactly what another woman is searching for.


Share what you know. Share what you learned. Create a space for women to find each other, ask questions and realize someone else has been there too.


Let’s blend our experiences, expertise and knowledge and build this league of extraordinary women.


Someone out there may need to know exactly what you know.

Let's talk about something other than work.


When was the last time you started doing something simply because YOU wanted to?


Not because it was productive.


Not because your kids needed it.


Not because your job required it.


Not because it made money.


Just because you thought, "That sounds fun."


And what was it?


We're curious how many of us have to sit here for a minute before we can actually come up with an answer.